1. You must want to suck dick. You must enjoy it.

2. Get into a comfortable position when you’re about to give head. And for fuck’s sakes, don’t rest your pointy elbows or heavy forearms on your partner as you’re sucking his cock. Let him enjoy it without feeling any distracting pressure on his thighs or stomach.

3. Ask your partner how he likes his dick sucked because everyone’s cock is different.

For instance, some guys like it hard and fast like a vice grip and a vacuum. Some guys like its slow and gentile as some cocks are very sensitive. Most uncut cocks are highly sensitive and should be sucked gently, but then again, always ask the guy to whom the uncut cock is attached. Some Guys love it sloppy and wet with lots of spit. Some guys hate it sloppy and find the slobber distracting. Some guys with bigger cocks like it when you use your hand and mouth together as an extension of your mouth. You may also want to put a drop or two of lube in your hands while you suck and stroke it. Encourage your guy to put his hand on the back of your head so he can show you the rhythm he likes. Ask him to let you know if he likes it and if you’re really lucky, he might talk dirty to you (which will give you even more info on what drives him nuts).

Deep-throating is a beautiful art that must be practiced. NEVER deep throat a cock when you’re impaired or after having just ate; puke will happen. Puke is (usually) not part of the blow job. If you’re good at deep-throating, you should do it in conjunction with regular sucking while incorporating the hand extension explained above. Exclusively deep-throating is only good if the top can fuck your throat till he shoots. Most guys can’t hold their breath that long. You can always practice working on your gag reflex with a dildo. Oh, and blow your nose before you blow his dick. We all need to breath and repeatedly shoving a cock into your mouth and throat can over work your mucus-producing membranes which can make everything all snotty.

Lets get back to hands and fingers as I mentioned above. If your mouth isn’t as wet as it should be, add a little lube to the cock and your hands or both. Consider cupping his balls with one hand and stroke with the other. Some men love it when you touch and play with their hole as you suck their cock. Some guys have sensitive balls so NEVER just suck one of his gonads right into your mouth without checking with him. I know some men love their nuts tugged and squeezed and some absolutely hate it.

Don’t be a suck-and-stop queen. Don’t suck on his cock and then stop and ask, “How was that?” Don’t just stop and look up at him with his cock in your hand; STAY ON THE DICK. Stop-go, stop-go bjs are annoying and can pull your guy out of the zone. When a guy’s getting head he wants to think about the bj and that’s it, not why it is that you keep stopping.

Ask your man to tell you when he’s close to cumming and when he starts, if you’re cool with jizz in your mouth, then keep on sucking exactly the way he likes it until he shoots his load in your mouth. PLEASE PLEASE remember this important bit; during orgasm, don’t overstimulate the head of his cock! If you suck the head too hard as he’s cumming, then it will most likely ruin his orgasm and all your work will be for nothing.

If you can incorporate rimming his hole as part of the cock worship, then you’ll get a repeat customer for sure. But maybe that’s another blog post.