Dear Cole,

Please help!

I’m your biggest fan and I love your videos.  I especially love the ones with just you and Hunter.  They are my favorites because you men are so rough and fit and hot in bed and yet both so loving, just like me and my love.  Can you please tell me how I can get my hubby to get rough with me in bed?  I don’t mean kinky.

When he’s fucking my arse, it’s amazing but I find myself wanting him to just take charge and fuck me like a he owns it.  I want him to call me names and pull my hair good and hard as he is inside me.  Am I crazy for this?  How do you and Hunter do it and make it seem so good?  I want that too, please help me!  I love my guy so much and he has a large cock and it feels great, he is my love, I don’t want to lose him so it’s tough for me to say what I want because I don’t want him to think that I am a freak.  And I don’t want him to think I am not happy with how he fucks me in the bum, because I do love it, but he thinks we should make love, not fuck.  I just want to get fucked.  Hard!  I know it’s naughty, but I don’t even want him to kiss me – just fuck fuck fuck!  Is this bad?  Should I stop thinking this and bury it down?  Should I just watch you and Hunter and think that it’s me and masturbate and just not rock the boat?  I don’t really know, but I would love some advice.

Sincerely,

You Know Who (from the UK)

Dear You Know Who,

Yes, I do know who you are, lol, and you are most definitely our biggest UK fan!  Your email reminds me of an old saying:

“Angels kiss and Devils fuck “

No, you are not a freak and no, you are not alone in wanting this. It’s pretty common, actually.  The best advice that I can give you is to talk to him. TALK TALK TALK!  Communication is the key to a great healthy sex life as well as a happy love life.  Hunter and I have a very special relationship and we have been together for MANY years.  We talk openly about all aspects of sex and what makes us go crazy in and out of bed.  We have a bond of open communication that is usually only achieved through many many years of trust and communication.  Now, I know you and your guy have only been together for two years or so, but that’s a pretty long time for guys as young as you both are.  If you love him and he loves you as much as you say, then he should be open to all conversations no matter how strange or uncomfortable you might think the topic is.  First off, if you seriously don’t think he feels comfortable talking about a heavy issue like this, then try this approach.  Say, “Hey honey, I had the strangest dream, it was strange because it made me cum while I was dreaming!”  That should arouse his interest.  Tell him that in the dream he grabbed you by the hair and said, “Get the fuck over here boy, I’m gonna fuck that sweet ass!”  Tell him that he made you lie down on your belly and took your ass and fucked it like a beast and he didn’t even kiss you.  Tell him the dream was so strange but so HOT and that you think you’d like to give it a try.  You never know, maybe he’s been waiting to open up his inner beast on your sexy little ass!  Let us know how it turns out.

Xo Cole Maverick