THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX: “Anodyspareunia”
OUCH! Pain during receptive anal sex is formally known as, anodyspareunia. One study found that about 12% of gay men find it too painful to pursue, and concluded that the perception of anal sex as painful is just as likely to be psychologically or emotionally based as it is to be physically based. Another study that examined pain during insertive and receptive anal sex in gay men found that 3% of tops (insertive partners) and 16% of bottoms (receptive partners) reported significant pain. Factors predictive of pain during anal sex include inadequate lubrication (so LUBE UP BOYS!), feeling tense or anxious (TAKE YOUR TIME TAKE IT SLOW), lack of stimulation (EAT THAT ASS before you slip it in), and lack of social ease with being gay and being closeted, so lube that “STRAIGHT guy” up good before you fuck him.
Research has also found that psychological factors can in fact be the primary contributors to the experience of pain during anal intercourse and that adequate communication between sexual partners can prevent it so COMMUNICATE! Hunter and I have always told you COMMUNICATION IS KEY to countering the notion that pain is always inevitable during anal sex. The abundance of nerve endings in the anal region and rectum makes anal sex VERY pleasurable for many men and women. The opening and closing of the anus is controlled by the internal and external sphincter muscles AKA the “Chocolate Star Fish.” The sphincter muscle is a sensitive membrane with many, many, many, many, sexy little nerve endings and thus the source of pleasure or pain. Yes there is that FINE LINE between pleasure and pain. In a male receiving partner, being penetrated can produce a pleasurable sensation due to the inserted penis rubbing or brushing against the prostate YAY!!! PROSTATE, we love our PROSTATES – also known as the “male G-Spot”, “P-Spot”, “A-spot” and of course the “Maverick Muscle.” This can result in extremely pleasurable sensations, screaming, and inevitably an orgasm like no other in most cases. For some men, prostate stimulation produces an orgasm that they describe as deeper, MORE GLOBAL and intense, longer-lasting, and associated with greater feelings of ecstasy than any orgasm elicited by penile stimulation alone. Just sayin’…
Etremely hot as usual!!! You are the best fuckers ever!!!!!!!!!!!
Will you sometime travel to Colombia? Let’s taste the Latin American Flavor!
I’m waiting for you in Medellin.
vous etes super génial aimerai vous rencontré car je kiffffffffffff
loose google translation: you are super awesome because I’d met you kiffffffffffff
HOT clip. You should post it for download. 😉
Cole,
Are you going to post that video when you bottomed for Hunter! I’d love to see that one!
From which video is taken the extract at 4:35 ?
By the way, I’d like to say you’re SO hot ! I wanna get plowed by both of you guys, I want to feel you cum in my ass… Please, travel to Paris and come lick my ass.
It’s from Twink-a-licious with sexy-as-FUCK Christian 🙂 – Hunter and thank you!!
definitivamente cada vez los amo más…..deliciosos!!!!!!! 😛 hunter, amo tu culo…….cole amo tu verga!
loose google translation: definitely the master increasingly more ….. delicious!!! : P hunter, I love your ass ……. cole love your cock!
Muchas gracias, Santiago!!!! 🙂 – Hunter
When are yall coming to Colorado, Would love for yall to fuck me!!:)
We’ll come back when it gets warm again, send pics if you wanna be in a video!…ColeAndHunter@MaverickMen.com 🙂 – Hunter
Cole… so if what u say is true.. why doent u 2 bottom? I am a top who has tried to bottom many time with heaps of lube…foreplay… heck even poppers but just hurts and i dont like it… it frustrates me bc i see the look of ecstasy on th efaces of guys i fuck and wanna feel it… question is… are there a minoriy of guys out there that are wired to be strictly tops like me? eg… i am horny and the guy sayd .. i wanna fuck u… i immediately get soft!…
You guys can ready say.You have fucked your way to the top.I love it. You fucking pigs. I want you both to cum all over my face.
Hey, man that is very timely advice.I always wonder how those guys seem to take cock so hard.Does it hurt a little.Because guy really pound hard it looks like it woould hurt some?
It’s all about patients and lube; it might look like we get right to pounding, but in reality it takes a while to get to that, just take things slowly and use plenty of lube and you’ll be pounding away in no time 🙂 – Hunter
When are you guys come to Utah again? I want to meet you sexy fucks.
Hmmm we are due for another UT visit, should be soon, keep in touch 🙂 – Hunter
Just an FYI…Jam is having their white trash party on the 22nd. Come.
Oh fuck!!! we’d love to but we are tied up this time :(((( hope it’s a blast, send pics 🙂 – Hunter
I would love to have the “Butt” advice for a clean fuck as well. I am a big fan of your website and both of you. Come to DC guys 🙂
A good way to clean is to use a rubber ear syringe. Just wash it, squeeze it under tap of warm water til full and then insert it, clench sphincter hard, and squeeze contents into your ass. Release water and anything in your ass comes out with it. repeat for thoroughness. It’s very simple and comfortable to use, easily washable and can be used over and over for years. Much better and cheaper than douches.
I hear you and totally agree! We keep a few bulb syringes in house and I sanitize them using a pot of boiling water. Def better for the environment (and buttholes, too!). Thanks for your comment. 🙂 – Hunter
I love being fucked, I guess I find the right guys, as it is not painful but pure pkeasure for me. I have said it before and I’ll say it again, I would love you both to fuck me!!
Has Hunter ever managed to cum hands-free while getting fucked by you Cole?
It’s happened a few times and requires just the right mix of: a hot-as-fuck summer afternoon, me gettin plowed deeeeeep for a while when I’m on my back, then stomach, and THEN if I jump up doggie and Cole pounds away, his nuts slappin mine, then I can shoot hands-free 🙂 – Hunter
Damn! Hunter, you make me so damn hot!
BUTT would love advise to make sure it is a CLEAN fuck
shoot me an email and I’ll tell you what I’ve learned from the porn star boys we know…ColeAndHunter@MaverickMen.com – Hunter
Daily doses of Metamucil (2-3 glasses a day). Run fiber through the pipes and you will have way less to do for actually prep work. Additionally, you want to clean the rectum and not the colon. For those guys who use Shower Shots and contraptions like it, you are actually working against yourself. Once you get water around that turn from the rectum and actually into the colon, you stimulate activity in the colon…hence, you increase the chance someone will strike oil, so to speak.
Could you elaborate? What do you mean clean the rectum versus colon? How? and really? you take Metamucil. For me, I feel like I have to use the bathroom. It’s sooooo uncomfortable. If I could feel secure getting nailed. My hubbie was a straight up donkey dick, it’s about 12 solid inches when he’s boned. It’s one of hte biggest dicks ever. how the fuck i’m supposed to get fucked by that. Love ya, mean it.
Well sounds like patients and lube are the things you need, honestly nothing better than that…just get clean using water only, give yourself 30 mins after that before sex, then use lube and patients…and send us pics 🙂 – Hunter
I moan like I am getting cut open while getting fucked, but my dick stays rock hard and drips cum the whole time I am getting banged. I have shot just by getting fucked but it is rare.When I jerk off while getting fucked, my dick feels so secondary to the pleasure of my ass. I have a PUSSY ? But I do sound like I am getting used, but in my heart I LOVE it more than anything. I am closted married, guy so the idea of being sub is zHOT
OMFG! Amazing –for a more mature guy, makes me hot and hard! Love you guys 😉
Who was that last boy in the clips?
Ah yes, that’s Ash from our video, Raw in Reno, def don’t miss that one 🙂 – Hunter
Everytime I watch your videos Im so horny and hard!!!, come to Atlanta and fuck me guys!!
Everytime I watched your videos Im incredible horny and hard, come to Atlanta and FUCK ME Guys!!!!!
Awesome!~~!